Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Signs he's thinking about dumping you

Ever wonder if your man is secretly hoping to end your relationship? Kate Taylor, relationship expert at match.com, reveals the clues you’re about to lose him – and how to get things back on the right track

1. Critical conditions

The Everly Brothers nailed it – ‘starting to criticise little things’ you do is the most common sign your man has lost that lovin’ feeling. When you find yourself berated for everything, from the way you chew your food through to your choice of career, take notice. This behaviour has been identified by psychologists as, ‘building a case against the partner you want to leave’, and is often a way of removing guilt (for example, if your man has found someone else).
Block his exit: Instead of apologising, bite back with a sassy, funny reply. ‘Forgive me, O Great One,’ and go about your life as you like. This show of self-confidence will re-ignite his respect for you.

2. The ‘eye-narrow’
Ex FBI-interrogator Joe Navarro has written many books on body language, and has identified that when we look at something that arouses uncomfortable feelings in us – like guilt, or displeasure, or upset – we unconsciously narrow our eyes. Next time your partner greets you, look at his eyes: if he seems to squint, pay attention. But if he greets you with raised eyebrows and dilated pupils, chill – they’re universal signs he’s seen something he likes.
Block his exit: Disarm him by asking if there’s anything he’d like to talk about. Squinting eyes are a sign of repressed feelings – encourage him to open up.

3. His feet face the door
Again according to Navarro, our feet are the most honest part of our bodies. From childhood, we’ve been taught to ‘put on a happy face’ about things, but we don’t consciously control our feet. When you’re with your man, see where his feet are facing because that’s a sign of where he wants to go. If they’re towards you – awesome! But if they’re pointing out of the door, be prepared for the rest of him to follow.
Block his exit: If your man’s toes want space, give it to them. Back away for a week and keep yourself busy with your own fun life. A little distance might be all it takes to get him walking back your way.

4. He starts breaking dates

When a man cancels plans with you, pay attention. Barring emergencies – his mum’s ill, he’s in hospital or his favourite team are playing at home – his number one place to be should be by your side. If he begins to avoid opportunities to get together, it’s a sign he’d rather be somewhere else.
Block his exit: Never nag him if he cancels a plan, because then he’ll feel more justified for doing it. Instead, express sadness and then go about your life. Avoid clingy texts. If he cancels two dates in succession, pull back for a week.

5. He changes his pattern

If your man doesn’t text you for a day, it’s no big deal. But if he has always texted you every day then suddenly stops, sit up. Any violent change in pattern could signal something’s changed in his heart, too. Do take into account what else is going on in his world (women often forget this) – is his work hectic, his home-life disrupted? If so, relax. But if there seems to be no reason, pay attention.
Block his exit: Keep your interactions with him light and fun. Don’t initiate! If he’s weighing up whether or not he wants to be your man, give him space to do it. Don’t trust your instincts to bridge the gap.

6. He avoids intimacy

He stays up later than you do, doesn’t sleep over, or offers his cheek to be kissed rather than his mouth. Oops. When a man’s sex drive diminishes, it’s a signal his feelings are flaccid. Another sign: when he cuddles you, he pats you on the back. This is a body-language giveaway that always means, ‘I want this hug to end now.’
Block his exit: Never, ever nag. Pretend you haven’t noticed the lack of passion, and just watch him for other signals listed here. If he has two or more of them, realise he’s drifting away. Sit him down for the Talk.

7. His friends seem uncomfortable around you

When his friends go from welcoming to distant, it means they feel uncomfortable – usually because your man has told them he’s unhappy with you. They won’t speak out, but they’ll back away from you out of mixed loyalties and a terror you’ll ask them why your man seems so miserable lately.
Block his exit: Realise anything you say to his friends will get reported back to him, so don’t interrogate them about your bloke. Instead, try to relax and have fun like normal. Even if it doesn’t stop him leaving, it will ensure his friends all beg him to take you back.

Friday, August 3, 2012

PhD Studentship in Data-driven Analysis of Social Perception of Dynamic Faces at Radboud University, 2012 Netherlands

Doctorate Studentship in the field of Social Psychology, Cognitive Psychology, Cognitive or Social Neuroscience, or Artificial Intelligence at Radboud University, 2012 Netherlands
Study Subject(s):Data-driven Analysis of Social Perception of Dynamic Faces
Course Level:PhD
Scholarship Provider: Radboud University
Scholarship can be taken at: Netherlands
Eligibility:You should have:
-a Research Master’s degree in Social Psychology, Cognitive Psychology, Cognitive or Social Neuroscience, or Artificial Intelligence;
- a sincere interest in the field of person perception;
- experience in experimental psychological research;
- preferably a working knowledge of procedural programming languages (e.g., Python, MATLAB, R);
- an excellent command of written and spoken English;
- good social and communication skills and the ability and willingness to collaborate with colleagues from different disciplines and countries.
Scholarship Open for International Students: No
Scholarship Description: This project is embedded in the social cognition programme of the Behavioural Science Institute (BSI). The BSI is a research institute of the Faculty of Social Sciences. It received excellent ratings in a recent evaluation. Its mission is to conduct top-level research on the fundamental principles and processes that govern human behaviour. In addition to this fundamental aim (to understand behaviour), we aim at societal relevance (to influence behaviour). The BSI Graduate School (officially recognized by the Netherlands Organization for Scientific Research) is responsible for the training and supervision of the institute’s PhD students.
How to Apply: Electronically
Scholarship Application Deadline: 6 August 2012
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2012 Postdoctoral Position at University of South Bohemia, Czech Republic

Postdoctoral Position in Plant Biology at the Department of Experimental Plant Biology in University of South Bohemia, Czech Republic 2012
Study Subject(s):Experimental Plant Biology
Course Level:Postdoctoral
Scholarship Provider: EU funds and University of South Bohemia
Scholarship can be taken at: Czech Republic
Eligibility:
-Candidate successfully completed and obtained a Ph.D. degree or similar degree if they studied abroad on or after March 29, 2008
-Good knowledge of the Czech or English language (CAE or the equivalent)
-In addition to research, we welcome activities in teaching – a concept and leading of a specialized teaching course for advanced students and colleagues
Scholarship Open for International Students: Yes
Scholarship Description: We expect that the postdoc will be involved in some of the above mentioned research activities. Further, the abilities of communication in English, open mind in discussions and sharing own results and contribution to friendly atmosphere are expected. As outcome, publications in renowned international journals are preferred. In addition to research, we welcome activities in teaching – a concept and leading of a specialized teaching course for advanced students and colleagues.
How to Apply: Email
Scholarship Application Deadline: August 7, 2012
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2012 The Fulbright Lincoln Society Scholarship, Taiwan

Lincoln Society offers the Fulbright Lincoln Society Scholarship for Undergraduate or postgraduate students, Taiwan 2012
Study Subject(s):Courses offered by the University
Course Level:Undergraduate or postgraduate
Scholarship Provider: Lincoln Society
Scholarship can be taken at: Taiwan
Eligibility:
- Undergraduate or postgraduate students who are currently enrolled in public or private universities in Taiwan are eligible to apply
-An English recommendation letter written by a professor
-A photocopy of student ID (including the front and back sides)
-Applicants misrepresenting their identity are disqualified
-Submitted essays should not be plagiarized from the applicant’s or others’ published articles, essays, or homework
-Copyrights of the awarded essays are reserved for the Lincoln Society Taipei and Fulbright Taiwan.
Scholarship Open for International Students: No
Scholarship Description: This Scholarship is established in honor of Dr. Yu-Tang Lew who founded the LincolnSociety, and the Scholarships are in Dr. Lew’s memory. The Fulbright – Lincoln Society Scholarships are sponsored by the Lincoln Society Taipei, developed with Fulbright Taiwan, and awarded to the winners of an Essay Competition. The aims of the Lincoln Society match those of Fulbright Taiwan, and are the promotion of deeper mutual understanding between Taiwan and the U.S. Expansion of cross-cultural exchange is the core mission of this scholarship. By participating in the competition, Taiwan students are better able to understand the honest and unselfish spirit of President Lincoln, and to advance the intellectual and cultural interaction between Taiwan and the rest of the world.
How to Apply: By Post
Scholarship Application Deadline: August 15, 2012
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Call for South Africa and Egypt Joint Science and Technology Research Programme, 2012-2013

South Africa and Egypt Joint Science and Technology Research Programme in the field of ICT, Biotechnology (food production, agriculture and health),Laser technology, Energy for researchers from public universities and public research institutes, 2012/13 South Africa and Egypt
Study Subject(s):Nanotechnology, Remote sensing and space science, ICT, Biotechnology (food production, agriculture and health),Laser technology, Energy
Course Level:Research
Scholarship Provider: Ministry of Scientific Research in Egypt and the National Research Foundation in South Africa
Scholarship can be taken at: South Africa and Egypt
Eligibility:
The South African and the Egyptian applicants must be employed at a recognised research institution or higher education such as a university, university of technology or science council in their respective countries. The Principal Investigators from both countries must be in possession of a PhD and will be responsible for the scientific and financial reporting, as well as other technical and progress co-ordination of the project.
Scholarship Open for International Students: Yes
Scholarship Open for Students of Following Countries: South African and the Egyptian
Scholarship Description: The Republic of South Africa and the Arab Republic of Egypt signed an Agreement for cooperation in science and technology on 26 August 1997. As part of enhancing scientific and technological cooperation, the two countries have decided to jointly support researchers from public universities and public research institutes on an equal and mutually beneficial basis.
How to Apply: Electronically
Scholarship Application Deadline: 31 August 2012
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2012 Merit Cum Need Based Scholarship for Undergraduate Students at AIIMS, India

Merit Cum Need Based Scholarship for MBBS student / Nursing student at All India Institute of Medical Sciences, India 2012
Study Subject(s):Courses offered by the university
Course Level:Undergraduate
Scholarship Provider: Smt Maya Devi and Shri Kirpa Ram Kohli Educational Trust
Scholarship can be taken at: India
Eligibility:
-Scholarship is for financial support to undergraduate students of the All India Institute of Medical Sciences. S
-Scholarship would be based on merit-cum-means.
Scholarship Open for International Students: No
Scholarship Description: The Smt Maya Devi and Shri Kirpa Ram Kohli Educational Trust has offered to ‘The AIIMSONIANS’ a scholarship for financial support to undergraduate students of the All India Institute of Medical Sciences.The total amount of this annual scholarship would be Rs. 10,000/- (Ten Thousand only).This scholarship would be administered by the AIIMSONIANS and would be based on merit-cum-means. The selection would be done by a sub-committee of the Executive Committee of the AIIMSONIANS.
How to Apply: By Post
Scholarship Application Deadline: 16 August 2012
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2012 Mitch Faber Memorial Blues Guitar Scholarship at Musicians Institute, USA

Musicians Institute offers Mitch Faber Memorial Blues Guitar Scholarship for Newly-enrolled US citizen and non-US citizen, USA 2012-2013
Study Subject(s):Guitar
Course Level:Newly Enrolling Guitar Program (GIT)
Scholarship Provider: Musicians Institute
Scholarship can be taken at: USA
Eligibility:
-Newly-enrolled AA (Guitar) students only.
-US citizen and non-US citizen.
-Awardee must maintain enrollment at 12 units (fulltime status) during the full length of award period.
-Failure to maintain enrollment and satisfactory academic progress in AA (Guitar) program for the full duration of the scholarship may result in withdrawal of the award.
Scholarship Open for International Students: Yes
Scholarship Open for Students of Following Countries: US citizen and non-US citizen
Scholarship Description: The Mitch Faber Memorial Blues Guitar Scholarship was created to honor the memory, talent and artistic career of GIT alumnus (class of 1981) Mitch Faber; and is provided to encourage and support the educational growth of a newly enrolling Guitar Program (GIT) student. The scholarship will be awarded in Fall 2012 to a new student (US or non-US citizens) enrolling in the Associate of Arts in Performance (Guitar) program who demonstrates overall outstanding musicianship, and the potential for developing their own individual sound or unique voice on the instrument in the Blues style. The scholarship is applicable for students enrolled in the AA Guitar performance program only, and may not be transferred to “non- performance program” emphases (Audio Engineering, Music Business, Independent Artist, Guitar Craft, or Film) within an AA degree.
How to Apply: Post
Scholarship Application Deadline: August 24, 2012
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2012 MI 35th Anniversary Audio Engineering Program Scholarship at Musicians Institute, USA

MI 35th Anniversary Audio Engineering Program Scholarship for Newly enrolled US and Non-US Students in Audio Engineering at Musicians Institute, USA 2012-2013
Study Subject(s):Audio Engineering Program
Course Level:Newly enrolled Audio Engineering Program students
Scholarship Provider: Musicians Institute
Scholarship can be taken at: USA
Eligibility:
To be considered for the MI 35th Anniversary Audio Engineering Program Scholarship, you must meet the following requirements:
-Newly enrolled Audio Engineering Program students only.
-US citizen and non-US citizen. Submit a 250-word essay explaining why you should be considered for the MI 35th Anniversary Audio Engineering Program Scholarship.
-Include your goals; describe the extent of your financial need and any other factors you consider relevant.
-Provide the completed application form including: Verifiable financial need (submit 2011 tax return or other means of income verification).
Scholarship Open for International Students: Yes
Scholarship Open for Students of Following Countries: US citizen and non-US citizen
Scholarship Description: The MI 35th Anniversary Audio Engineering Program Scholarship will be awarded in Fall 2012 and Spring 2013 to a student (US or non-US citizen) newly enrolling in the Musicians Institute Audio Engineering Program who clearly articulates their career goals within the recording industry and demonstrates verifiable financial need. The scholarship is applicable for students enrolled in the MI Audio Engineering Program only, and may not be transferred to other programs or emphases within an AA degree.$1,500.00 tuition credit. Awardee must maintain enrollment at 12 units (fulltime status) during the full length of award period. Failure to maintain enrollment and satisfactory academic progress in the MI Audio Engineering Program program for the full duration of the scholarship may result in withdrawal of the award.
How to Apply: By Post
Scholarship Application Deadline: August 24th, 2012
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2012 Research Assistant Position in Statistics at University of Bristol, UK

Research Assistant Position in Statistics at School of Mathematics, University of Bristol , UK 2012
Study Subject(s):Statistics
Course Level:Research
Scholarship Provider: University of Bristol
Scholarship can be taken at: UK
Eligibility:
You should have completed a PhD in Statistics or Computer Science and should have a background in data-mining, inference, and prediction, ideally with experience of DNA sequence data.
Scholarship Open for International Students: No
Scholarship Description: Applications are invited for the position of Research Assistant in Statistics, tenable from 1 August 2012 for a period of one year.his is an interdisciplinary project, and you will be working alongside Prof Mark Beaumont (School of Mathematics, School of Biology) and Dr Julian Gough (Computer Science). The School of Mathematics and the Department of Computer Science are leading centres for research and teaching in the UK, and both offer a stimulating and friendly environment with first-rate facilities.
How to Apply: By Post
Scholarship Application Deadline: 08 Aug 2012
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The Canadian Institute of Health Research (CIHR) and The Swedish Research Council (FAS) funded Research Associate Position at University of Bristol, UK 2012

The Canadian Institute of Health Research (CIHR) and The Swedish Research Council (FAS) funded Research Associate Position at University of Bristol, UK 2012
Study Subject(s): Examining the Impact of Social Policies on Health Equity: How Policies Designed to Reduce Poverty and Gender Inequality Affect Morbidity and Mortality in Children and Women and Child Poverty and Quality of Government, Examining the Impact of Social Policies on Health Equity
Course Level: Research
Scholarship Provider: The Canadian Institute of Health Research (CIHR) and The Swedish Research Council (FAS)
Scholarship can be taken at: UK
Eligibility:
-Experience of academic research in social policy and/or related fields.
-Experience of conducting primary research in an academic research environment.
-Subject knowledge in relation to research into child poverty and maternal health in low and middle income countries.
-Experience of the analyses of poverty, deprivation and standard of living data from social surveys.
-Experience of writing SPSS syntax.
-Ability to produce accurate and usable quantitative datasets (i.e. SPSS system files) to tight deadlines.
-Ability to give presentations at conferences and to write for publications in reputable outlets.
-Ability to work effectively as part of a complex research project team.
-Ability to communicate effectively both verbally and in writing across a wide group of people.
Scholarship Open for International Students: Yes
Scholarship Open for Students of Following Countries: UK and non-EU nationals
Scholarship Description: The School for Policy Studies is seeking a Research Assistant to work on two international quantitative research projects; (1) “Examining the Impact of Social Policies on Health Equity: How Policies Designed to Reduce Poverty and Gender Inequality Affect Morbidity and Mortality in Children and Women” funded by the Canadian Institute of Health Research (CIHR) and (2) “Child Poverty and Quality of Government – A Global Analysis” funded by the Swedish Research Council (FAS). Working under the general guidance of the Principal Investigator and in collaboration with Co-Investigators, you will be responsible for the harmonization of social survey micro-data from Demographic & Health Surveys (DHS), Multiple Indicator Cluster Surveys (MICS) and related surveys and for secure distribution of data to project partners. You will also assist with data analyses and subsequent dissemination of results through a range of media.
How to Apply: By Post
Scholarship Application Deadline: 16 Aug 2012
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